Reflections on Year 40

Yesterday was the last day of the 40th year of my life. Needless to say, I’m feeling quite reflective.

Time surely flies — 1 year ago almost to the day I was in Satara, India — walking up these stairs, well, limping really. I still vividly remember how the physical pain in my knees was exceeded only by the emotional pain in my heart.

It was a moment of shear terror — “I can’t believe I’m about to be 39 years old and yet I can’t sleep properly, 90 lbs overweight, smoking over a pack a day, and working 70+ hours a week. At this rate, am I just going to die tomorrow of a heart attack?”.

Man, it gives me the shivers just thinking about it. Tony Robbins has a great saying — “Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.” He’s so right — it’s when you’re at the breaking point that you wake up.

So I went on a journey I’ve been on many times in the past, which was to change my behaviors to get better outcomes and feel better about myself. So after getting back from India I quit smoking, went on an aggressive keto diet, and limited my work to a more reasonable range (45–55 hrs/wk), determined to make myself a more effective leader at work and at home, rather than just grinding it out constantly.